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Soft Skills

General Principles

The Pausch Theorem: People won't remember what you said, but they will remember how you made them feel.

The Golden Rule - a 0th order default guess on what to do in a tricky situation when you don't have time to think

How To Apologize - 6 Key Steps:

  1. “Say you're sorry. Not that you “regret,” not that you are “devastated.” Say you're “sorry.””
  2. “Say what it is that you're apologizing for. Be specific.”
  3. “Show you understand why it was bad, take ownership, and show that you understand why you caused hurt.”
  4. “Don't make excuses.”
  5. “Say why it won't happen again. What steps are you taking?”
  6. “If it's relevant, make reparations: “I'm going to pay for the dry cleaning. Just send the bill to me. I'm going to do my best to fix what I did.””

Mentoring

Communication Skills

Adulting

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