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soft_skills [2024/10/08 23:35]
singhj [General Principles]
soft_skills [2025/10/29 11:51] (current)
boyera [AB] Added new section with resources from "Difficult Conversations Workshop" given by Ryan Smith during one of our group meetings
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 [[https://​www.npr.org/​2023/​01/​25/​1150972343/​how-to-say-sorry-give-good-apology|How To Apologize]] - 6 Key Steps: [[https://​www.npr.org/​2023/​01/​25/​1150972343/​how-to-say-sorry-give-good-apology|How To Apologize]] - 6 Key Steps:
-  - "Say you're sorry. Not that you "regret," ​not that you are "devastated." ​Say you'​re ​"sorry.""+  - "Say you're sorry. Not that you 'regret,' ​not that you are 'devastated.' ​Say you'​re ​'sorry.'"
   - "Say what it is that you're apologizing for. Be specific."​   - "Say what it is that you're apologizing for. Be specific."​
   - "Show you understand why it was bad, take ownership, and show that you understand why you caused hurt."   - "Show you understand why it was bad, take ownership, and show that you understand why you caused hurt."
   - "​Don'​t make excuses."​   - "​Don'​t make excuses."​
   - "Say why it won't happen again. What steps are you taking?"​   - "Say why it won't happen again. What steps are you taking?"​
-  - "If it's relevant, make reparations: ​"I'm going to pay for the dry cleaning. Just send the bill to me. I'm going to do my best to fix what I did.""+  - "If it's relevant, make reparations: ​'I'm going to pay for the dry cleaning. Just send the bill to me. I'm going to do my best to fix what I did.'"
  
 ===== Mentoring ===== ===== Mentoring =====
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 ===== Communication Skills ===== ===== Communication Skills =====
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 +[[https://​lorettajross.com/​callingin-online|Calling In (Loretta J. Ross)]] - vs. Calling Out 
  
 [[https://​hr.msu.edu/​professional-development/​courses/​communication/​index.html|Communication Courses from MSU HR]] [[https://​hr.msu.edu/​professional-development/​courses/​communication/​index.html|Communication Courses from MSU HR]]
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 [[https://​www.canr.msu.edu/​tag/​budgeting|Budgeting]] [[https://​www.canr.msu.edu/​tag/​budgeting|Budgeting]]
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 +===== Conflict Resolution =====
    
 +The following is a selection of resources that were shared with us during a difficult conversations workshop led by Ryan Smith (MSU Ombudsperson) that we had during a group meeting in 2025(?​). ​
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 +{{conflict_resolution_brochure_pdf.pdf|Conflict Resolution Brochure from Ryan Smith (MSU Ombudsperson)}}
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 +{{group_work_and_difficult_conversations_frib_work_group.pptx|Ryan Smith'​s slide on Conflict Resolution}}
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 +[[https://​en.wikipedia.org/​wiki/​Crucial_Conversations:​_Tools_for_Talking_When_Stakes_Are_High | Crucial Conversations:​ Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High (Book)]]
  
 +[[https://​www.youtube.com/​watch?​v=wtl5UrrgU8c |  The secret to giving great feedback TED Video]]
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