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| ====== Soft Skills ====== | ====== Soft Skills ====== | ||
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| + | ===== General Principles ===== | ||
| [[https://www.cmu.edu/randyslecture/|The Pausch Theorem]]: People won't remember what you **said**, but they will remember how you made them **feel**. | [[https://www.cmu.edu/randyslecture/|The Pausch Theorem]]: People won't remember what you **said**, but they will remember how you made them **feel**. | ||
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| [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_Rule|The Golden Rule]] - a 0th order default guess on what to do in a tricky situation when you don't have time to think | [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_Rule|The Golden Rule]] - a 0th order default guess on what to do in a tricky situation when you don't have time to think | ||
| - | [[https://nap.nationalacademies.org/resource/25568/interactive/index.html|The Science of Effective Mentorship in STEMM (Online Guide V1.0]] | + | [[https://www.npr.org/2023/01/25/1150972343/how-to-say-sorry-give-good-apology|How To Apologize]] - 6 Key Steps: |
| + | - "Say you're sorry. Not that you 'regret,' not that you are 'devastated.' Say you're 'sorry.'" | ||
| + | - "Say what it is that you're apologizing for. Be specific." | ||
| + | - "Show you understand why it was bad, take ownership, and show that you understand why you caused hurt." | ||
| + | - "Don't make excuses." | ||
| + | - "Say why it won't happen again. What steps are you taking?" | ||
| + | - "If it's relevant, make reparations: 'I'm going to pay for the dry cleaning. Just send the bill to me. I'm going to do my best to fix what I did.'" | ||
| - | [[https://wiscience.wisc.edu/resources/faculty-staff-resources/entering-research-curriculum/|Entering Research Curriculum]] | + | ===== Mentoring ===== |
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| + | [[https://nap.nationalacademies.org/resource/25568/interactive/index.html|The Science of Effective Mentorship in STEMM (Online Guide V1.0)]] - {{the_science_of_effective_mentorship_in_stemm.pdf|PDF version here}} | ||
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| + | [[https://cimerproject.org/|Center for the Improvement of Mentored Experiences in Research (CIMER)]] | ||
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| + | ===== Communication Skills ===== | ||
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| + | [[https://lorettajross.com/callingin-online|Calling In (Loretta J. Ross)]] - vs. Calling Out | ||
| [[https://hr.msu.edu/professional-development/courses/communication/index.html|Communication Courses from MSU HR]] | [[https://hr.msu.edu/professional-development/courses/communication/index.html|Communication Courses from MSU HR]] | ||
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| [[https://ombud.msu.edu/resources-self-help/for-graduate-students/writing-effective-letter-or-email|Writing Professional Emails]] | [[https://ombud.msu.edu/resources-self-help/for-graduate-students/writing-effective-letter-or-email|Writing Professional Emails]] | ||
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| + | [[cultural_competency_workshop_resources|Cultural Competency Workshop Resources]] | ||
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| + | ===== Adulting ===== | ||
| [[https://www.canr.msu.edu/adulting101/|Adulting 101]] | [[https://www.canr.msu.edu/adulting101/|Adulting 101]] | ||
| [[https://www.canr.msu.edu/tag/budgeting|Budgeting]] | [[https://www.canr.msu.edu/tag/budgeting|Budgeting]] | ||
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| + | ===== Conflict Resolution ===== | ||
| + | The following is a selection of resources that were shared with us during a difficult conversations workshop led by Ryan Smith (MSU Ombudsperson) that we had during a group meeting in 2025(?). | ||
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| + | {{conflict_resolution_brochure_pdf.pdf|Conflict Resolution Brochure from Ryan Smith (MSU Ombudsperson)}} | ||
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| + | {{group_work_and_difficult_conversations_frib_work_group.pptx|Ryan Smith's slide on Conflict Resolution}} | ||
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| + | [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crucial_Conversations:_Tools_for_Talking_When_Stakes_Are_High | Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High (Book)]] | ||
| + | [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtl5UrrgU8c | The secret to giving great feedback TED Video]] | ||
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